The Wish List by Barbara Ann Kipfer, contains 6,000 ideas for things to make, cook, see and do. I ordered the The Wish List back in the late 90’s, when it first came out. As soon as the book arrived, I immediately went through it and checked off everything I had done so far. Later, around 2005 I went through the book again and marked additional experiences I had had. This weekend, I did my third pass through the book.
Here are some of the things I marked off as completed:
1. Learn sign language
my a cat give birth to a litter of kittens
3. Sell my crafts at a craft fair
4. Live without television
5. See with 20/20 vision
6. Be asked for a recipe for something I’ve cooked
7. Get a Cosmetic Makeover
8. Visit the restored buildings of Colonial Williamsburg
9. Spend a weekend in Atlantic City
10. Learn to draw
11. Take a course in sculpture
12. Take a trip to Disney Land when no one else is there
13. Read the complete works of Shakespeare
14. Learn to read music
15. Study the Dialogues of Plato
16. Paint the sets for a show
17. Keep notebooks in every room of the house so I can jot down thoughts on the spot
18. Reread my favorite book
19. Take up Yoga
20. Keep bees and make honey (my daughter did this)
21. Donate my library to the library
22. Volunteer time at an animal shelter
23. Own every book ever written on my favorite subject
24. Read Good Night Moon with a child
25. Pray at the Wailing Wall in Jerusalem
26. See the cherry blossoms in Washington, D. C
27. Call in to a talk show
28. Spend an entire day in the library-just browsing
29. Participate in a Passover Seder
30. Be the only visitor in the Air and Space Museum in Washington, D. C.
31. Toast marshmallows and tell ghost stories around a campfire
32. Go on retreat
33. Take in a show at the Planetarium
34. Learn Archery (my kids did this)
35. Visit the site of the witch trials in Salem
36. Continue my education-for the rest of my life
37. Collect the stamps of foreign nations
38. Learn enough geology to know if a rock is sedimentary, metamorphic or igneous
39. Visit a chocolate factory and collect free samples
40. Teach a child to ride a two-wheeler
41. Take time off from my career to raise my children
42. Learn to make stained glass
43. Find my old childhood toys
44. Float on the Dead Sea, the lowest place on earth
45. Teach English to a foreigner
44. Explore back roads in New England, as the leaves turn color
45. Throw a lavish banquet
46. See penguins dive
47. Learn the art of speech making
48. Phone or visit my eldest relative regularly
49. Help keep a culture alive
50. Have a home that my children’s friends love to visit
51. Watch the Fourth of July fireworks at the
Washington Monument navy base in Annapolis
52. Learn CPR
53. Make fresh cinnamon rolls for breakfast
54. Redecorate my home from top to bottom
antique retro books
56. Quit smoking
57. Toast marshmallows and tell ghost stories.
58. Take a battery of aptitude and personality tests to find the career that best suits me
59. Design and sew my clothes
60. Live within my means
61. Undergo hypnosis in order to
quit smoking diet
62. Write a children’s book
63.Shear a sheep
64. Create a terrarium
65. Experience childbirth
66. See a recipe of mine published in the newspaper
67. Visit Fort McHenry in Baltimore, which is commemorated in the “Star-Spangled Banner”
68. Keep a record of the lessons I learn
69. Grow lettuce hydroponically
70. Grow corn in my backyard
71. List the contents on the side of every storage box in the garage
72. Graduate from college.
73. Learn to cook genuine Southern fried chicken
74. Learn Yiddish
75. Paint pottery
76. Sail the Chesapeake Bay
and fish for crab
77. Outfit myself at the thrift shop
78. Visit Kitty Hawk, North Carolina
79. Treat myself to a massage
80. Work two part-time jobs instead of one full-time job
81. Be part of a neighborhood watch group
82. See the battlefield at Gettysburg
83. Drive Virginia’s Skyline Drive
84. Open my home to someone in need.
85. Start a business with my spouse.
86. Go on a flea-market tour of America.
87. Get a manicure.
88. Go out on a date with my spouse on Saturday night.
89. Find a buyer for my house in two weeks.
90. Desktop-publish my own business cards.
91. Learn fencing.
92. Build a greenhouse and have living things year-round.
93. Paint a mural on my wall.
94. Spend a warm spring day at the races.
95. Make copies of old family photographs.
96. Take ballet lessons.
97. Make homemade potato chips.
98. Visit the holy sites of Jerusalem.
99. Make s’mores.
100. Visit the site of Jamestown, Virginia, first permanent English colony in America.
101. Whale watching along the coastline of
Redwood National Park New England.
102. See Rodin’s statue of The Thinker.
Climb Visit Masada on the shore of the Dead Sea.
104. Read everything my favorite author has every written.
105. Get a huge refund from the IRS.
This next list is of things I would like to accomplish in the future. I’m not exactly sure how I’m going to get these goals completed, so I wrote down some tentative ideas to get myself started.
For The Future:
1. Scale an indoor climbing wall. Very doable. I’m just not going to go too high.
2. Paint with watercolors. My husband just bought me a set of watercolors in tubes, plus a set of brushes. Maybe Youtube has some lessons.
3. Start a publishing firm. I would love to write and publish my own books and nowadays it’s sooooo easy. I need to read up on this.
4. Take a creativity workshop. I’m not sure how or when I will do this, but I will keep my eyes open.
5. Carry a sketchbook. I just bought Wreck This Journal. Once I get a larger purse, I plan on carrying it around with me.
6. Play the harmonica or washboard. Maybe there is a book or video I can use.
7. Photograph town landmarks and turn them into postcards. I’d like to turn photos of Israel into products and sell them on Etsy. I think I already have most of the skill set, but I just need to get motivated.
8. Produce my own multimedia shows on my computer monitor. For my website.
9. Find a use for everything. I would love to spend one week finding a use for (almost) every bit of trash in the house, including food packaging.
10. Set up a large trust fund for my
daughter son. Pretty much self explanatory.
11. Read all of Agatha Christie’s books. I’m a big mystery fan and I consider her books to be classics.
12. Learn the art of relaxation. Mindfulness, meditation and guided relaxation are all on my list of things to learn.
13. Notice daily miracles. I just bought two books to work towards this goal. Both are about looking at the mundane and seeing something new and exciting. One is called Side Walks: A Journal for Exploring Your City and the other is How to Be an Explorer of the World: Portable Life Museum.
14. Cook a different ethnic meal every night for two weeks. I am especially interested in Indian food, but I will try anything as long as it is vegetarian or vegan.
15. Keep on learning new things. I would like to learn Photoshop, photography, layout, graphic design and origami.
16. Finish what I start. I have a blouse, a needlepoint, and a plastic canvas tissue box cover which need to be completed. Plus there are a couple of kids toys I committed to making, along with a family cookbook and some board games.
17. Learn to make flatbread. I would like to try my hand at pita, naan, chapatis, matzoh, tortillas, etc.
18. Learn to cha-cha. I don’t know why but I’ve always been fascinated by old dance steps. I’d love to do this with my husband. I’m sure Youtube has a video on this.
19. Sketch with pastel crayons. I just bought some pastels and this is high on my list of to-do’s. Should I experiment or get lessons?
20. Learn to make popsicles. I can already make a couple of simple popsicles and now I would like to try out some upscale recipes.
21. Learn one great card trick. My husband and son are both interested in magic. I would love to have one or two great tricks I can call my own.
22. Master sewing. I can do easy garments and alterations. I would like to be an expert.
23. Keep a list of all the books I read, with quotes of my favorite passages. I’m planning on using a Reading Journal.
24. Stay at the historic King David hotel in Jerusalem. I can’t afford to stay there, but maybe I can pay the 140 shekels to sit by the pool.
25. Read every book I own. I probably own too many books to read them all, but maybe I can commit to reading a certain type, like all mysteries or all personal finance books.
26 Eat a meal cooked by Julia Child. Actually, eat a meal cooked by me, using only Julia Child recipes.
27. Make my own cheese. I’ve done some very rudimentary cheese making, but I would like to do more. Plenty of how-to books available.
28. Work on an archaeological dig. There are several very close to my home, so this might be easy to arrange. I have to check it out.
29. Grow all my own herbs. I was growing my own hydroponic herbs for a while. This time I would like to grow herbs vertically, on my patio.
30. Read the complete works of Jane Austin. I haven’t read any of her books yet, so this may take a while.
31. Solve a whole book of brain teasers. Or, an entire puzzle magazine. I would be happy with either one.
32. Learn the language of my ancestors. I am trying to learn Hebrew. I listen to a dvd every night, but after a year, I am still on 7 out of 90.
33. Try Spelunking. Well, not really. But I do want to visit the Sorek Stalactite Cave.
34. Really get to know every
painting exhibit in my favorite museum – even if it takes a lifetime of visits. I’m not sure which museum to choose. Maybe the Burnt House museum because it’s small and easily accessible. The Wohl Museum of Archeology might also be a good choice.
What adventures have you had? Or hope to have? Please feel free to write me with a list of some of your favorite experiences and/or goals. I’d love to hear what they are.
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I live in Ramat Beit Shemesh, one of the most religious cities in the world (literally).
Though we have a population of over 80000, we don’t have movie theaters, mini golf, amusement parks, bars, etc. We don’t even have many eat in restaurants.
I’m very happy living here, but it does make life a bit boring at times.
It’s for this reason that I purchased a book called Side Walks, by Kate Pocrass. Side Walks encourages you to explore your own neighborhood. It helps you to discover the aspects of your town that are unique, fun, and worth investigating.
Perfect for someone who lives in a city where ideas for recreational activities aren’t obvious.
Before I started filling in the sections of this book, I was convinced there was absolutely nothing to do nearby. But after just an hour or two I came up with a small, but exciting list.
- Stalactite Caves
- Music Festival
- Bowling (Yigal Alon 24)
- Tel Beit Shemesh
- Beit Guvrin National Park
- Benjamin Children’s Library
- Mirchaz G’mach
- Emunah Shiur
- Tuesday Night Board Game Group
- Thursday Night Board Game Group
Okay, I admit it. Still not a lot to do. But it is much more than I had ever thought of without the book.
In addition, Side Walks has quite a few “challenges” that can be done virtually anywhere. My son and I did the following…
When eating out, order the weirdest thing on the menu. The unusual items are often the tastiest. At the very least, you will have a good story to tell others.
We went to two bakeries and one ice cream store and at each stop, shared something we had never tried before; chocolate souffle, rum and raisin ice cream, berry cheese pastry, a tiny cheese roll and a fruit flavored water. The whole excursion cost about seven dollars, introduced us to some unusual treats and allowed us to spend a fun few hours together out of the house. We had a great morning doing something we never would have thought to do without the guidance of the book.
If you live in a tiny town, out in the country, or even (as I do) in one of the most religious cities in the Middle East, Side Walks will allow you to take advantage of all the entertainment resources available to you.
Side Walks: A Journal for Exploring Your City (affiliate link)
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